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Three amazing reasons why being a mother is the best decision I will ever make

1. Because it is the best teaching experience. I first became a mother on August 20th 2013. You should see my face whenever  I think, say or write this date. I glow beyond measure and I feel a great amount of happiness. Being a mother has been the toughest decision I have had to live with and that I am still living with today. I wake up each day knowing that I am going to be taught by someone I carried for 9 months and that I have nurtured since she came into this world. There is no denial that my child has taught me more in 2 years than I have learned in 20+ years studying to become a solicitor. I have been taught how to be strong and meek at the same time.  How to be firm and gentle at the same time. How not to think that you have got it all under control because nothing about life is predictable. How to be happy and be in pain at the same time. There is nothing more endearing than to see your child walk alone by your side, to see that there is enough confidence within he...

Why giving up is the right thing to do

What is giving up? Giving up takes a lot of strength and gut but that is not always how we are meant to see it. We are told that giving up is for the weak and that the next step you take might be the deal breaker. However, in life there are times when giving up is the best thing you could ever do. Here are some situations were giving up is for the brave.  When you are hurt Who has not been hurt and disappointed by someone or something you put your faith and trust in? Who has not been left bewildered by the amount of pain one can manage when pain is pricking deep into one's heart. Who has not been betrayed by a loved one and abandoned by the people you considered family and friends. Whatever your current predicament or past experiences,in these circumstances, it is better to give up on the hurt than to let it grow into a mustard tree. When you fail Failure is the least of any one's expectation. No body likes to fail and those who seem to embrace failure easily have o...

I am trying

I am trying to say a word. It just would not come. I have it in my mind. My heart choses to deny. I am trying to understand. It just doesn't make sense. My heart tells me right. My mind tells me wrong. I am trying to be happy. It just have to happen. My heart tells me you are. My mind tells me you will. I am trying to love you. It is wonderful. My heart feels warm. My mind is secure.